Family Stories l Chapter 7

Here on our blog we’re shining a light on Mums from all walks of life. In this article we talk to Terri. Mum to Reeva Renee and Daria Rose, she’s based in United Kingdom. Read on to see what she has to say on all things parenting…

What does Parenting mean to you ?

My idea of Parenting is simple. Provide my kids with all they need so they have the best childhood memories but in the same time give them the right tools for later in life, I don’t want to spoil them or even worse, I don’t want them to become entitled, I want them to grow and believe that they can achieve anything they want in life. Whatever goals they want to achieve, I want them to believe that they can do it. Of course, when I say goals, I don’t talk about becoming a huge Pop singer if you do not have the tools to achieve that. Like voice, for example. Real goals, achievable.

How did your life changed after having your first child ?

I am bipolar, so I struggle mentally for many years now, when I got pregnant with my first I was so scared, I thought I will not be able to handle it, but she saved my life and she changed my world completely. Everything that I do, I do it for them, for my kids. So your next point in life, your next level in life, let’s put it like that, it comes after overcoming your biggest fear. For me, it was this one, I thought I will not be able to be a good parent for my first born but here I am now, mother of two, and I am doing a pretty good job, I would say.

In your opinion, what’s the most rewarding aspect of parenting?

I think the simple things are the most rewarding. Learning to eat with the fork, learning how to walk, these kind of things. It is nice to see them growing and become little people. And it is a bhuge satisfaction to know that they learned all these things with your help. It’s not necessarily the big things, like graduating from who knows what high-school or winning an important contest. It is the small things first, if they learn how to do that properly, they will learn how to do the big things the right way.

How is Parenting today comparing to the way you have been raised by your parents ?

The way I raise my children is a lot different from the way I’ve been raised by my parents. When I was a children, I think I used to have more freedom, nowadays is a lot more pressure on kids and parents. Social Media has a big impact as well nowadays, when lots of parents compare themselves with the ones from Social Media. And issue is that on Social Media we only see the good things, we don’t see all the frustration, lack of sleep, all those moments, they are not advertised on Social Media. For example, I always show all the good and the bad in my life, just to be aware that life is not always great and it is normal. With ups and downs, that is life. People need to share more of the frustration moments.

What was the hardest moment in this journey, as a family, to overcome?

Personally, with myself. When I got pregnant with my second daughter in January, she was not planned, I hate to admit, but I really regretted it, I did not think she would fit in the family, I did not think I would be able to cope with it, specially with me being bipolar, but in the end it proved to me that everything happens for a reason, so now I absolutely love her, it was a though pregnancy, I was not ready for a second baby. It prooved to me once again that life gives you what you need, not what you want. Now, I am so so happy with her and with my family.

What annoys you the most about Parenting ?

The advice you get. You get advice from anyone, either you ask for it or you don’t. To be honest, you just need to do whatever works for you, there is no universal advice or magic pill that works for every situation. You have to pick the information, apply it and see if it works for you. If not, that’s ok, try something else. Don’t listen to everyone, it is easy to talk and give advice, I feel we live in this kind of world, where sometimes people believe they know everything and because of that they can give advice on anything. Don’t listen to anyone, do whatever you think it’s better for you.

Now is your chance to embarrass your kid – tell me an embarrassing story

Not really any crazy stories here, it is just a constant reminder from my daughter. She loves to tell in front of everyone that she needs to poop. Like she does not care how many people, or what kind of social context we are in, she just needs to do her stuff and she says it loud and clear, she is not embarrased or anything like that. Kids don’t care about other people opinion, they just do whatever they need at the moment, maybe we should learn from that.

We’re gonnna continue our series, Family Stories, here on the blog, to point out the ups and downs of being a Parent, there is no doubt that there is more ups than downs and over time all those bad moments and challenges they pale compared to the good things… so many good things…

5 Ways To Show Your Appreciation For The People In Your Life

Gratitude, gratitude. It reciprocates and it helps us to enjoy life more. It sounds easy to put in practice, but I feel like many of us just don’t. Reasons?Really have no clue, but its benefits could convince you. So below, there’s 5 simple reasons to show gratitude or appreciation to people in your life.

1. Try to be an active listener

Really listening to what others have to say it is pretty important. It is a sign that we respect them and their work or time. It is annoying when you are talking about something, either at the office in a meeting, or when you go out in town with a bunch of friends and people are not listening to you. They either scroll on Social Media, look for shoes or God knows what else, there are always people who are not listening. It makes you feel pretty bad, like whatever you are saying makes no sense or is not interesting at all, when it’s really not like that. Try to stay off your phone in social situations like going out, job meetings or dinner with your loved ones. Pay attention to what they have to say, you never know what kind of information you may get and they will pay you back the same way, by actually listening to your opinion and what you have to say. It is a form of respect…

2. Give out compliments

I know, it is kinda of hard when we only see problems everywhere. But life is made out of problems, good problems. Take a look at the big problem, split it in small steps then whenever a step is completed by yourself or someone else, just give it a go. Giver yourself a compliment or give the other person a compliment for a job done. Again, we are creatures of habit, we are what we repeatedly do. So after you started doing this and see some minor benefits, try to do it on a regular basis. Now, please don’t go too far. Don’t compliment same person every day twice, 5 days a week and a weekend reminder…

3. Donate to a charity

Again, we have bills, kids to support, a household to run. But, it does not have to be a crazy amount of money each month. It could be something small, like whatever you can afford, or you don’t even have to donate money, it could be something else. You might think that if you donate 20 USD monthly, that is a really small amount and no one is actually going to benefit, so why to donate in the first place ? Well, imagine a small community of individuals, like 1000 people. If each person in this community donates 5 dollars to a charity or for a good cause, the total would be 5000 USD, which is not that bad. This just from a small amount of people. It will also make us feel better about ourselves, by realising how much we actually have, but we are never aware of it. Let’s try it out.. it does not hurt.

4. Smile more.

Again, I feel we don’t smile as we should. We can always find some reasons to smile I guess, though sometimes it can be difficult, depending on what’s happening in our lifes. A nice sunshine, a blue ski, a good conversation, fresh bed sheets or a hot shower, all these little things have the power to make us smile. And if we cannot find joy in the small things, right now in our lifes, how are we going to be able to find happiness and joy in the big ones ? Also, smiling is contagious. No more words needed here, we all know what do we have to do.

5. Tip well for a good service.

Like really. I’ve been working myself in the Food and Beverage Industry and honestly, it is tough. You have to run like a dog, everybody wants more Coke, fresh ketchup, fries are cold, kitchen is looking for you because your ticket is messed up and so on. Been there, done that. If your server is doing a great job please take good care of him. This might be different in EU, AU or USA but I am sure there is some sort of standard. I remember when I was working back in the days and I had a big table of 10-15 people. Service went great, nothing to complain, expensive wine and food. They all smiled to me when they left (remember reason no. 4) and I smiled back to them because we smile and we are grateful and they tipped me like 5% on a pretty big bill. Dissapointed. Don’t be like that.

5 simple and handy ways to show appreciation to people in our life. I am sure there is a ton of ways out there, but I tried to sum up just a few, enough not to get you bored but interested…

To have or not to have a dog

Topic of the day: to have or not to have a dog. In this article I will try to shine a light on PROS and CONS of having a dog in your household.

The idea is simple, Pro’s and Cons. I will start with Pro’s.

  • Dogs are fun and emphatic – like I mean it, lots of fun, lots of love

I rememeber when I was a child, growing up in my parents house. We used to have a German Sheppard puppy. He was the after school joy, always in the mood to play around, always cheer me up when I was not in my best mood. Unconditional love and joy. Snuggle on the couch with him, running in the backyard, barking. (him, not me, just in case anyone’s wondering) Not sure if it happens to every dog owner out there, but they have a weird, funny habit. They love stealing either a shoe or a sock. I don’t really understand where is coming from, at those specific moments I used to get annoyed, but now when I look back, I really don’t care anymore about socks or shoes. Also, a dog has the ability to understand you, he does not need words. If you had a bad day, he is going to notice that and he will try to make you happy. Funny thing is, most of the times he is able to do that. If you are sad, he is going to be pretty sad too, if happy, well, he is happy too.

  • Reminder of being more present in our lifes

It is simple and maybe we should all learn from that. When a dog is tired, he takes a nap, if he is hungry he eats or asks for food, or if he is in the mood to play that’s what he is going to do. Nothing more, nothing less. They don’t really think of what happened yesterday, or what is going to happen tomorrow, worries, fears and all the miracles of the human brain. They just enjoy the present moment, whatever would that be and that’s it. A small lesson for joy and happiness maybe.

  • Incredibly loyal and unconditional love. Period

He really does not care if you gained pounds or lost pounds, he will not judge you if you are having a terrible hangover, lost your job, payed your taxes or whatever mentioned. He is there no matter what. As mentioned above, unconditional love. Have you ever watched those videos at the airport with American soldiers coming back home and surprising their dogs? The amount of joy, the sounds they make or how they jump in the owner’s arms says it all. Love, no words needed, no description, no hashtags, just love in its pure form.

Now the fun part, it is not all glamorous and bling- bling, we know that, let’s see some of the CONs of having a dog.

  • Maintenance

Having a dog is more work than you may think. Specially on the maintenance side, let’s put it like that. Some of them need to be brushed from time to time, or maybe their nails need to be clipped once in a while, bath, medical tests and insurance, bath, you name it. Having a dog is so so rewarding but in the same time it is a pretty big responsability. If you want him happy and you want him to give you back some of that happiness you have to take care of thim. Period.

  • Attention

They need it. Like really. They need your attention, they need you to play with them often, annoy them, spend some time with them or take them for a short walk in the morning or afternoon. They really feel things emotionally and they are not afraid to show it, if they are left alone, they feel that way and it is going to impact them in a negative way. If not sure you can provide the attention needed or you do not really have the time for that it is better not to buy or adopt a dog, just for now. There is nothing more sad than a sad dog. Well maybe there is, but it is still pretty sad.

  • It is pretty expensive to own a dog

Another pretty big thing to take in consideration. Owning a dog is pretty expensive, with all the toys, food, medical expenses or any other accesories, they all add up to the budget you know. So I would say at the end of the month if you do the math you would probably need a few extra bucks in the pocket just for them. So be aware of your budgets, you don’t want to buy him and feed him with grass, no no, not going to work.

All done, Tremo friends. A few PROS and CONS of owning a dog. In my opinion, it is a big responsability, honestly, but the rewards are pretty amazing to be honest. So think about it...

5 Mom Influencers to follow on Instagram

I had a thought this morning and I decided to write it down. Best spot ? On our blog, of course, so stay tuned !

A random idea popped up in my head this morning. I guess the rainy days of London can become a good source of inspiration. (just sometimes, I don’t like rain) So I decided to share it on our Blog and I picked 5 Influencers with relevant content for different topics in a Mum’s life. Topics are mentioned below, alongisde with a personal point of view for each one of them.

  • Nutrition for babies/toddlers
  • Parenting Humor
  • Educational tips for babies/toddlers
  • Fashion and style for Mums
  • Workout for Mums

Nutrition for babies/toddlers – Annabel Karmel

First topic picked is Nutrition. From my perspective, this is one is one of the most important topics in our kids lifes. We want them to grow healthy and happy. I consider myself a little bit obsessed when it comes to Health both physically and mentally so I try to be very careful with what I eat, what kind of Information I consume or how do I talk with myself. Going back to Nutrition though, I picked Annabel’s profile due to a few reasons. She is a Mom herself and a writer about Nutrition so obviously she is providing accurate information on topic. On her wesite, recipes are divided by age range, meal times, dish types , ingredients, family and much more. So everything you need, divided by category and also lots of accurate information about other topics as well. So, good place to start, check it out !

Parenting Humor – Stay at Homies

Humor. Important. Actually very important, according to some researchers. I don’t know where they from, don’t ask me that. The idea is that laughing is a small joy, we all had at least one moment in our daily lifes when we were about to punch someone in the face but we read that good joke, or we heard that funny person saying who knows what. Humor and laughing in general makes life easier, smiling and giggling is a must. There is a saying I like “don’t take yourself too seriously”. I guess it says a lot. So go ahead, scroll down her Feed for some funny Parenting Stuff, there is no need for description. Humor is just humor.

Educational tips for our babies/toddlers – simplylearning

Education starts when you are young. Very young in some cases. Pretty much that is a time-frame when you don’t feel pressured yet by things like bills, career, Netflix’s latest TV Shows or all the other joys of the capitalist world. So this is the point where you spark creativity in your kid, now it’s the time to discover things and play around. Kaitlyn is a Mom herself, a home educator and her motto is “making learning manageable and fun” for the busy moms out there, aka all moms. So go ahead, check her website and her Instagram account, you might find useful stuff !

Fashion and Style for Mums – Christine Andrew

Oh boy. Only if they would have the time needed. Style does not need any kind of description, is something most of us like I guess, we all want to look good and feel good. Luckily, nowadays you can find pretty much anything you like in regards of Styling and Fashion, there’s always deals everywhere and also lots of small brands with not so pricey outfits. Our choice on this topic is Christine from hellofashionblog. Inspiring outfits, beauty tips, travel and family, all in one place. Check out her feed and blog, it is inspiring indeed !

Workout – Ebonny Fowler

Working out is crazy nowadays. Everywhere on TV, Ads, Radio or whatever the importance of working out is highlighted and for a good reason. Fitness does not have to be that crazy schedule of waking up at 5 AM to go to the gym and stuff yourself with a bunch of supplements, strict dieting or “red pills” stuff where you get a six-pack overnight. No, the idea behind is that we need to move more, stretch our bodies and muscles. That’s it. I feel like this is a direct result of our lifestyle – sitting down way too much, either at the office or our own car or just laying down on the couch too much. This has to be compensated somehow. Find time for a few minutes of home workout everyday, Pilates, Yoga or walk more instead of driving, all these small actions add up and they make your body better. Our mention here is Ebonny Fowler, her profile has lots of simple workouts divided by muscle groups, with/without equipment and some of them can be executed from home. Check it out.

This was it pretty much. The Tuesday morning thought. I really hope you enjoyed it and most important I hope you’ve got some good insights out of it. Remember, information is key…

Parenting Insights l Hailey

In yesterday’s post we spoke to Hailey, a Mum of three from South Australia. Have a read of this insight from Adrienne and her parenting experiences. 

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“I lost my job when I had my first baby, as we lost funding in the government changes, I was on a contract and no…”

“…one was going to give a 4 months pregnant person a new job, in the end it was a blessing in disguise. I gained a new little best friend, we bought our first house and we got married. So the point here is, looking back at this trial in my life, which at that point was considered a small tragedy, it actually got me where I am here today. And we evolve from these things, from the hardships we overcome, throughout life.”

Through our Family Insights, we are trying to give a glimpse into what it actually means to be a Parent, it is not always glamorous and fun, sometimes it involves struggles and difficulties, but we aim to provide honesty and motivation, to understand that happiness comes from overcoming obstacles…

Family Stories l Chapter 6

Here on our blog we’re shining a light on Mums from all walks of life. In this article we talk to Hailey. Mum to Lidiana Allegra and Gia she’s based in Australia. Read on to see what she has to say on all things parenting…

What does Parenting mean to you ?

Parenting to me is getting to enjoy and re live your childhood and enjoy the simple things through the eyes of a child. Sometimes, as an adult we forget to enjoy the small things and we concentrate on these big goals that we all have like career for example. This kidnaps from us the simple things sometimes and for some reason, simple things bring us the so called joy and happyness. Parenting is hard but I choose to enjoy all of it even the mundane. Don’t get me wrong I am far from perfect and I have my moments. But le’t not chase perfection I say.

How did your life change after having your first child?

It changed a lot, honestly. None of my friends had kids so I lost a lot of friends as they didn’t understand. We may not have been prepared to have a baby but we became stronger and she made us focus on different things to give her the best life. We were travelling a lot and not saving a penny and as soon as we found out we changed our life direction. So, basically, our life changed completely. From our approach to finances or to find the best way to give her the proper tools to develop as an adult, losing friends, adjusting priorities, everything changed. We’re still the same persons, we still enjoy doing some things in our own way, so in essence we are the same, but with a completely new approach to life. All, in a blink of an eye.

In your opinion, what’s the most rewarding aspect of parenting?

Everything, but when they run up to you and wrap their little arms around you and say “I love you…” nothing is better than that feeling. It’s something that cannot be really explained, you have to feel it, it is such a different type of satisfaction, nothing else that you achieve professionally or who knows what, it’s going to give you the same feelings. At least for me. Also, I love watching them do new things, ohhh baby laughs and smiles, there is so much to love and cherish. Life is a blessing indeed.

How is Parenting today comparing to the way you have been raised by your parents ?

Hmmm this is hard for me. I guess a lot more relaxed back then and we were very poor. I think that is why I try to give my girls lots of experiences and holidays and camping. I think it might be a thing that each parent experiences in some way, they try to give their kids whatever was missing from their childhood, be it some sort of education, a more stable financial situation, affection and so on. I am not sure, I am curious to see other stories, it would be an interesting insight.

What was the hardest moment in this journey, as a family, to overcome?

To be honest we have been very lucky and we haven’t had any real hurdles or hard moments.
Maybe worth to mention that I lost my job when I had my first baby, as we lost funding in the government changes, I was on a contract and no one was going to give a 4 months pregnant person a new job, in the end it was a blessing in disguise. I gained a new little best friend, we bought our first house and we got married. So the point here is, looking back at this trial in my life, which at that point was considered a small tragedy, it actually got me where I am here today. And we evolve from these things, from the hardships we overcome, throughout life.

What annoys you the most about Parenting ?

The lack of space, having a audience whilst on the toilet… and the talking that does not stop Hahahaha. They invade your life step by step, in a good way. I cannot imagine my life without them now, I don’t want to think how is it going to be when they grow up and move out of the house…

Now is your chance to embarrass your kid – tell me an embarrassing story

I have one which is really embrassing. One we love telling in our house is the time Allegra as a baby pooped on my face. We can’t even hide it because she tells everyone. She did a pop off and it got me on the face. There is no need for more details here, you can imagine.

We’re gonnna continue our series, Family Stories, here on the blog, to point out the ups and downs of being a Parent, there is no doubt that there is more ups than downs and over time all those bad moments and challenges they pale compared to the good things… so many good things…

A few reasons why a photo book is a meaningful gift idea

Wrinkles should merely indicate where the smiles have been.

This blog post is a result of a conversation I was having with a friend of mine, one of those conversations that sticks with you, just like other things in life. We talked about time and how we waste it on irrelevant things sometimes, but that is a discussion for a different topic. What stayed with me is in the following lines:

– “What is the best way to stop time for a second ?”

-“Take a photo” he said, time stops when you take a photo, right ?

Christmas is coming by fast and as we already know, a favorite part of it is presents for family, friends, dogs, and whoever is important to each one of us. So, we decided to give you a few reasons for why we think a photo book could be an award winning thing when talking about meaningful gifts.

No one can ever take your memories from you

No matter what will happen, a photo book will stay with you. Sure, it is going to get dusty, but from time to time, you will take it out and relive those moments. Wisdom and advice from our grandparents, joy of a high school friendship, pain of a breakup (really, don’t put that in a photo book), satisfaction with your children to see them growing up while they heavily helped you to age faster. Delightful, right? These are all small recipes for happiness. Our family and friends equals big parts of happiness. Anything else could make your life easier but not fulfilled. So take a second and go through your memories, do you feel the emotion attached?

Your life is your story

It is personal, no one else has the same story as you. I think there’s a few ways to tell something about a person. There is a saying that I like: “if you wanna know someone just look at who they surround themselves with”. Let me look at their photos, either online or physical and I would probably be able to tell a few things about them, what they like, what they do or how they do it. Like a memoir, but with photos.

Builds better relationships aka big part of life

We’re all humans and I think this applies to all of us. When you look through your memories, those peaceful evenings by the fire or on the porch, you see some of your old friends in. You might want to send a text to some of them, see what’s happening in their lives, if they are close relatives, you probably know that, but you might see things differently. Maybe you’ll realize how much they’ve done for you in certain moments, so that connection becomes stronger. As mentioned earlier, life’s about connections and connecting dots between them, so go ahead, look at some photos. See if you miss someone, shoot them a text and strengthen the connection. It is easy, handy and it’s rewarding.

Great Christmas activity to do with your loved ones

We talked about the importance of connections in life, but there is another small ingredient to complete the recipe. An important event, like Christmas, which is a reason for gathering loved ones around you and tell stories. First, your family, take them all around the Christmas tree and look through photos, take new ones and just be there, I cannot really explain that in words, you have to feel it…sometimes, meeting with family for Christmas, means going back in our hometown, so it is a good time to meet old peeps from high school or college. Meet with them, besides having a great time, you never know what kind of opportunity might arise. Maybe it’s a job related thing, partnership or a recommendation. You never know if you do not try.

Be present here and now, stop fantasizing about future

This might be a tricky one to explain, but let me try. The first rational question would be something like: “If I stare at all these photos and memories, won’t this make me live in the past for a while ?”…well, short answer is yes, but the question we want you to ask yourself is more like “How was I able to do these things? I want to do more…” then the answer lies, here and now, be present, life is now, you create your future memories now, every day. Be more present in your life, take more photos, I don’t really want to say “live everyday like it’s your last one”, that is black and white type of thinking from my perspective, you can’t really be so thrilled about your life every single day, but live it wise enough to be able to create those memories…

Photography is a form of expressing ourselves, when our words can’t find words to say what they feel. (deep one, ha?) Here, at Tremo Books, these reasons are enough to work hard and print memories for people around the world, make them happy and present. Remember, connecting dots.

Parenting stories Chapter 1

Meet the Mums

Everyone has a special relationship with their Mum. On our blog we want to tell the stories of Mums from every walk of life. We want to inspire you, maybe show you a different perspective and above all showcase how different one of the most amazing jobs in the world can be.

In this article we talk to Liz – she’s a Mum to Claire who’s 21. She began her working life in the pharmaceutical industry. When she became pregnant with me, she moved into teaching – and 11 years on she’s still going strong! 

What does parenting mean to you?

Parenting is so many things. For us, ‘parenting’ isn’t what some might say. She’s 21, so for us it’s such a bigger idea. It’s all about teamwork. We’re all working together to reach the same goal. 

In your opinion, what’s the most rewarding bit of being a parent is?

I don’t know if courage can be taught. Whether it is, or isn’t, it’s one huge aspect to parenting. Sometimes I’ve wondered if some of the stuff Claire has done has been achievable but if you meet each challenge with the same amount of determination you’ll be surprised what can be done. In 2011, Claire had a spinal fusion to correct a 65 degree S shaped curve in her spine. It’s fair to say we were both petrified. Though if you’d have said she would have crossed the finish line of the London Marathon 8 years later I wouldn’t have believed you – but I would have been a lot less worried! 

How do you think your parents have shaped how you’ve bought your kid/s up? 

My parents first set eyes on each other as Doctors training at Guy’s and St Thomas’ Hospital in London. They really were a pair. In pre-Facebook days they wrote each other love letters which still exist to this day. It’s safe to say, my Dad wasn’t the most by-the-book person. In doctor’s exams there would be an actor given the task of ‘presenting’ with a particular illness. They then had to correctly diagnose the illness. I have no idea if this is true or not but he’d say how he could always sweet talk the actor into divulging the illness. Well after he retired, he continued dispensing medical advice (some more wanted than others!) where he could. 

Igniting your kids curiosity is something everyone should do. Okay his medical approach may have been somewhat unorthodox – there was one thing which was always there – and that’s his curiosity. One thing he taught both of us is to continue asking questions. We’d have so many random conversations about the weirdest of things. From how the world’s first lab burger was created to a family of wild orangutans – we covered it all. He taught us the power of knowledge and the importance of continuing to learn – developing new skills all the time. Whether it’s something big or small – we try to adopt this approach wherever we can. 

If you could do one thing differently, what would it be? 

She’d definitely say she got her wacky parts from me and the sensible grown-up bits from her Dad! Travel is totally were she feels the impacts of it. So perhaps I’d encourage her Dad more to take greater leaps of faith and travel beyond a 2 hour car drive from our house! My Dad was a HUGE fan of travelling – venturing to all four corners of the globe. He went to Australia to visit friends and family, the Northern Lights. You name it. Some of our holidays had mixed success though. I remember having such high hopes for the Northern Lights. Though maybe thanks to a touch of light pollution, we saw them across a car park and they didn’t look as special as people made them out to be! But nonetheless I don’t think that’s put Claire off her desires to visit Norway and other Alpine countries. Though money isn’t vital to having an amazing time. Trying new things and stepping a little outside your comfort zone could be though.  

Now is your chance to embarrass your kid – tell me an embarrassing story! 

Claire has always loved animals. We had a local zoo with chimpanzees. Years ago we must have told her a story which was so life like we managed to accidentally convince her she’d gone into the chimpanzee enclosure to feed them. She then proceeded to tell the whole school about her chimpanzee encounter! It was only in semi recent years we had to break it to her that it didn’t happen!

What annoys you the most about parenting? 

Me and Claire are so ridiculously similar. We finish each others’ sentences, at restaurants we order the same stuff (not intentionally, we promise!). People can never quite believe that yes we have our own opinions but a lot of the time they are soooooo similar. And the other bit – probably more annoying is when Claire gets ‘hangry’ (hungry and angry all at the same time). I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who lives her life quite so dictated by food! 

What’s the one most important thing about parenting?

There’s not a single magic ingredient. Just to ‘be you’ is probably the most important. You can’t pretend to be someone you’re not. If someone doesn’t value your skills and personality for what it is then it says more about that person than it does you. 

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